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 Baby
Names
Curly,
Larry or Moe? Buttercup, Blossoms or Bubbles?
One of the first challenges that new parents face is choosing a name
for their new baby. This may sound like a no-brainer and something low
on the list of priorities when faced with the seemingly daunting world
of parenthood. Even so, choosing baby names can be very time-consuming,
frustrating and even a source of consternation for new parents. But a
baby with no name can be equally disturbing, hence parents have no
choice but to search, think and ponder on the most appropriate name for
baby.
There are so many things to consider when selecting the
perfect name for your child. Many parents don't have a clue about where
to begin and feel completely overwhelmed. The best place to start is
with a list. Both parents should take a few minutes and jot
down the first ten baby names that come to mind that they deem suitable
for the new baby. Consider the baby’s physical attributes, as
well. Refrain from naming your baby “Rocky” when he
is a frail baby of only 4 lbs.! Coming
with a list is not as difficult as it sounds - it's actually
surprising, how many unique and quality names have been stored in your
memory.
Make sure that you list names for both boys and girls, unless
you already know the sex of your baby. Once the list is
complete, both parents should sit down and eliminate any names that
either parent objects to. Even if only a couple of names remain. This
is a good start. The next step, after this brainstorming
session, is to define some parameters for your baby names. Think about
and discuss your preferences for cultural backgrounds, family names and
number of syllables. You can also narrow it down to include
only names starting with specific letters.
Make sure that you keep plenty of paper handy, and be aware
when you are out and about. Listen for potential names when you're in
the grocery store, listening to the radio and walking through a park.
You'll be surprised at how tuned in you can become.
Make sure to use the Internet when hunting for baby names. So much of
the work is already done for you. Using any search engine, type in the
phrase 'baby names' and a huge amount of websites will appear, handling
all facets of the subject. You can narrow down your search. Any way you
wish. There are even forums where you can browse other people's name
ideas and post your own to get unbiased feedback as you work through
your choices.
As you start to narrow down your list, pay special attention
to the name’s potential for teasing. Think of any negative
words that may rhyme with or sound like the names you are considering.
Also, look out for undesirable letter combinations formed by the
initials of any baby names that found their way to your
list. Try writing out the names that you come up
with and make sure to say them out loud, to ensure that they roll off
the tongue with ease. Again, be aware of any similarities to negative
words or phrases that may be formed by certain name combinations.
It is also a good idea, to ask friends and family for their
thoughts and ideas. But be wary on picking up a choice in
grandma’s house! Parents and grandparents are from
another generation and they may be stuck in a rut when it comes to good
baby name choices. Siblings can be very opinionated, too during the
naming process. Just remember, that getting opinions on your baby names
can be helpful, but at the end of the day, what you name your baby is
all up to you and your spouse. You have the final
say! If certain people have an aversion to a name that is
high on your list, stick to your guns!
Once people get to know your baby and form an affectionate
bond, you will find that they quickly forget any negative connotation
they may have had with the name, and come to love the baby, name and
all! So, remember, choosing a name for your baby is a big
job, but it can be a lot of fun and it's a good way to get your mind
off the aches and pains that come with pregnancy. Going over baby names
is something you can do with your partner, and it allows them to play
an active role in the baby's life even before the actual birth. Rather
than waiting for the last minute, take the time to go through the
process right now, and you'll be sure to select a name that is perfect
for your baby - one that lasts a lifetime!
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